The difference between twin flames, soulmates and karmic partners, and some friendship tips

Seeing that there is too much misinformation on the Internet, many of which are not clearly stated, or they are just as rambunctious as cults, I really can't help but want to stand up and express my views.

In the following, I will try my best to help you understand the relationship between the three, and tell you some of your own experiences and insights, to help you reduce obstacles as much as possible in spiritual practice.

A simple comparison of the three

The energy level is double fire > soul > karma

The generality of the three relationships is karma > soul > double fire

Not everyone has a double fire.

What are the differences between the three

• Karma 

Can be understood with Buddhist thought (although I don’t like Buddhism very much), you can understand it as the entanglement of fate, for example, you meet a stray cat/dog that is very close to you one day, you contact it and follow it Play, feed it water and even give it a name, then in this vast universe, you will establish some kind of connection or some kind of karma, and there may be fate (karma) between you and it. The entanglement between you, there will even be cause and effect between you, or the effect of the encounter before you have a reason. This is a chicken-and-egg problem, and I won’t go into too much detail here.

Then the karmic relationship is similar. You can understand it as repayment of the debt, or the energy between you in the previous life has not been completed, and there is more, just like money, there is no way to always want to spend it, so Hurry up and spend it when you find you in this life. After all, it is the money that can only be circulated between the two of you. If you change it to other people, who want it like Ming Coins, hurry up and spend it all.

Therefore, karmic relationships can also be said to be the most torturous. Generally, the kind of relationship that makes you suffer a lot may be a karmic relationship.

If I want to make an analogy, then a karmic relationship is like feeding the pigeons in the people's square, the pigeon and you both want something from each other, but once the pigeon is fed, you will either leave each other, or one of them will appear. The situation where the other party is still struggling, but the other party is not hanging at all.

In other words, you both have homework to do with each other, so when your homework is completed, you don't need to see each other, let alone read each other.

Karmic relationships can be said to be ruthless passers-by. If you encounter them, you will happily study and do your homework. When you are done, just let it go. The homework here can be "how to get along with people", "what kind of person am I suitable to be with", "there are shortcomings in my human nature..." and so on, it can help you better recognize yourself, and perfect yourself.

• Soulmates. 

Soulmates can be said to be "close relatives of souls", which can be simply (or crudely) understood as the same as living beings in the soul, there are ethnic groups, and a large group of soul aggregates eventually split into equal and similar souls, called a soul mate. The big family of dumplings (big fog. So if you meet a soul mate, you will feel that this person is very friendly and easy to approach, and he will feel this way about you.

Soulmates incorporate the functionality of karmic relationships that teach you something and upgrade on top of that.

First of all, the use of this product (not) will be better than the karmic relationship. It can be understood that a layer of soft things is wrapped on the chair and upgraded to a sofa. When you get along with them, there will be a lot of goodwill flowing. You are very gentle to each other, even if you are unhappy and finally separated, you are extremely gentle.

So there are often cases where soulmates become life partners and are very satisfied with each other.

In addition, the relationship of soul mates also has a very strong sense of "destiny" and "destiny". If you use lol's worldview, then Xia Luo is a very obvious soulmate - two people belong to the same clan, and they are the only survivors after the clan was slaughtered, you are the wind and I am the sand, fluttering gone to the end of the world.

• Twin flames. 

The translation of twin flames is straightforward. They are twins of the soul, and the two sides of one body are inside and outside of each other. A complete soul contains both yin and yang attributes. A complete soul splits into two consciousnesses, carrying different polarities, and also contains some of the other's characteristics in between, just like a yin and yang fish. This situation is extremely rare. Because not every soul is strong enough to be split into two independent consciousnesses that are not disabled, useless, or even able to withstand the toss of reincarnation.

Referring to Qianjue, both sheep and wolves represent death, but sheep represent reconciliation with death, accepting death peacefully, and accepting the peace brought by death; while the wolf is responsible for escaping death and rejecting death, so it also represents The fear of death is the great fear and despair that cannot escape death.

The emotions represented by the two have the difference of yin and yang, but the core is the same, that is death.

So the same is true of twin flames, you will be mirrors of each other - completely opposite at first glance, but on closer inspection, they are still the same thing.

Regarding some of the characteristics of Shuanghuo, I will not go into details here, but there is some wrong information that does not belong to Shuanghuo at all, and I feel it is necessary to tell everyone.

Some Shuanghuo misinformation and some very, very friendly tips

Not everyone has double fire. After trying hard to explore themselves, many people say that they feel like they are a whole and there is no such thing as a lack of a part. So really not everyone needs to look for double fire, there is no need, and soul mates are also very beautiful.

If you like a person, you like it; if you want to establish a relationship, then you establish it. Don’t be constrained by these concepts in your practice. Many of the standards mentioned on the Internet are false.

If you have been obsessed with "I have to find double fire, I can be perfect", then this obsession itself is a very terrible hindrance, it will make you very weak in nature, you have to believe, even if there is no With Shuanghuo by your side, you can also live a wonderful life, and you can choose your own path!

Everyone, please cheer up! If there is, it's the icing on the cake, if not, it's okay! You have to believe that the world is so big, there will always be people who understand you, don't be afraid! Open your heart to embrace the world!

Get out of the shackles of these rules and regulations, embrace your true self, your inner child, and boldly face up to your own desires, your own dark corners of humanity, your own dark side, your own cowardice and cowardice, that is what makes you truly happy. Nature. Boldly admit your needs and acknowledge them, that's the most important thing. I will continue to encourage and support you in this way, you are all amazing!

The twin flame itself is neither painful nor scary

I often see this kind of argument on the Internet. The twin flame is very painful. It is a life-threatening thing. Don't go after the twin flame, Bala Bala. These kinds of scary remarks. This is also the point that I want to rant about the most.

What I'm trying to say is that twin flames don't have to be hard!

The essence of twin flames is unconditional acceptance and love. How can such a comfortable and beautiful thing make people feel uncomfortable? I'm afraid it's not a karmic relationship that makes you uncomfortable. You must admit your mistake.

If you feel that your so-called twin flame has hurt you, it uses you for its own sake, it is with you just to satisfy its own desires, it controls you and betrays you, it just ignores you because of your own mood, and does some very bad things to you. If something hurts you too much, then he is not your twin!

Please protect yourself! Leaving the spiritual level, you are just a very ordinary interpersonal relationship. Don’t always expect others with your own desires, because if you do this, you will fall into a karmic mentality, and it will be very bad if you are backlashed. The natural thing - because you are taking, and taking means desire.

I can very well understand your desire to find your twin flame because we are all inherently looking for something beautiful, and unconditional love and acceptance are a beautiful thing that brings peace to our mind and body.

But these are unattainable. If you must see these things, they must come from yourself. If you are willing to give unconditional love, unconditional acceptance, and unconditional trust to the people around you, you will You are the light yourself, why bother about seeing other lights?

You can also hold your head high and proudly tell those who say that there is no true love in the world, that you have seen unconditional love and unconditionally all because you are the things themselves.

As for the "soul dark night", there is indeed such a thing, but the dark soul night is just a general term. The true identity of the "soul dark night" is actually some burden in your heart, the trauma you have experienced in your life, you are burned out by your own desires The pain, your cowardice, your despicableness.

That is to say, the dark night of the soul may actually exist in every moment of your life, but the arrival of the twin flame will be like ripening the acne on your face, making it mature and burst out in the shortest possible time. Of course, it hurts, but it accelerates the eruption, and it also accelerates the disappearance. When a complete course of treatment is over, you will be greeted with a new life.

I believe that no one will find this kind of thing scary, because, in fact, you are experiencing it every day, you are feeling it, and it is not so terrible and difficult, on the contrary, you may even feel that the feeling brings to you is very familiar.

It doesn't break you, it's just a part of you, and it just makes you stronger.

There is no escape and pursuit of twin flames

I'm sorry that this article will offend a lot of people, but what I want to say is that there is really no such thing as a so-called escape party.

The escape party you are talking about is nothing more than "he has not awakened", but you must know that when the two fires meet, then their energy and spiritual awareness must be very, very sufficient to a certain level, or even equal, if you and A person has been together, a month has passed, two months have passed, three months have passed, even a year has passed, and he has not woken up...

Does that mean the two of you are not heavyweight players at all? Why do you have to force him to compete with you? Is he unworthy?

There is indeed a situation in which one of the two fires has a higher spirituality than the other, but the difference in spirituality will not be so large that it is completely impossible to awaken for a long period. The real situation is that the one with weaker spirituality will have much higher spirituality than the average person. If the stronger side taps a little, the weaker side will immediately follow! They will all be very open to spiritual advancement and you will have a great time playing!

And what I want to say is that you can't do anything at the soul level of spirituality. You can only point and guide. Unless the other party takes the initiative to find you to improve his spirituality, you can't take the initiative to intervene in a person's spirituality. energy field.

It's really important to realize this!

Don't get hurt needlessly! It's like Sister Xianglin, she's been there all the time, you persuade, persuade, and scold, but it's totally useless! Why? Because she only wants to be BBW, she just wants to be a very weak person, she just wants to complain about herself, she just wants to lie on the ground and hum, and doesn't want to stand up, if you pull her to stand up, she will beat you, believe it or not?